MY FAVOURITE SITES

Panty sites

Fetish Networking and Dating Sites

Similar to Facebook and mySpace but run by kinksters like you and me. We think it is more fun that way. Don’t you?  199,446 Members have shared 618,865 pictures, participated in 199,170 discussions in 7,801 groups, are going to 745 upcoming events and written 108,065 blog posts… all in about 1 year.  Welcome to kinky heaven! Fetlife is not a meat market, and that is why it works. Fewer trolls, less BS and more real people.  Get in touch with your local BDSM community, without the trouble of signing up for news lists and endless streams of emails.It gives you a place to learn, share and explore your kinks and it is 100% FREE

Like any dating site it has it’s trolls and time wasters, but if you are wise enough and are patient it is a good place to meet people and begin a journey into the BDSM world.  It has chat rooms, personal adds and there is loads of information and links to all areas of BDSM lifestyle especially in the forums. Its a worldwide meeting hub for those looking and those already in all sorts of BDSM related relationships.

Informed Consent is the leading website about BDSM in the UK. (BDSM is an overlapping abbreviation of Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and S&M.)  They’ve been online since 1997, starting with listings, then adding discussion forums, personal ads and weblogs. Most of their sections feature information about both the BDSM and Fetish scenes in the UK.

“Bondage.com was founded in 1996 by a couple of hopeless geeks. These geeks had the sheer dumb luck of originally registering the Bondage.com domain name back in 1994. From day one the key philosophies behind Bondage.com have been technical excellence and running a non-slimey adult site.”

The purpose of the ALT.com site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At ALT.com, you will find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, which allow you to narrow your search so that you are able to find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at ALT.com a successful and fun experience.

The London Fetish Scene is a community site with it’s own “Wipipedia”, which is a on-line encyclopaedia of all things fetish and SM, it is being continually expanded and improved by the community. If you want to find out about any aspect of BDSM or alternative sexuality here is a good place to start. The Wipipedia is a project run by the London Fetish Scene, a free community resource for the fetish scene in London. This is an adult site dealing with issues of human sexuality,

Fetish and BDSM rights

This site promotes the concept of “BDSM Rights”: the belief that people whose sexuality or relationship preferences include Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, or Sadism and Masochism (“BDSM”) deserve the same human rights as everyone else, and should not be discriminated against for pursuing BDSM with consenting adults

The Spanner Trust exists to defend the rights of sadomasochists of all sexual orientations and specifically to reverse the UK court ruling which made certain SM activities illegal even though all parties consent

CAAN is a growing grassroots network of individuals and organisations fighting for the freedom of adults to view, or engage in consensual activities in private. We want to reclaim our human rights to privacy and self expression and to be allowed a lifestyle, or sexuality of our own choosing. We want you to join in and do things, because that’s what a network is. We need to put our energies and skills together to turn the tide of puritanical laws which create harmless criminals and victimless crimes.

To promote and campaign for the acceptance of safe, sane and consensual exploration of SM practices and BDSM as a sexuality.  To promote the right of all adults to engage in safe, sane, and consensual sexual expression.  To build a communication, information, education and support network for members of the BDSM community.  To welcome adult individuals of all consensual sexual expressions, colours, races, sexual orientation, religion, genders, physical and mental disabilities etc.  To facilitate reduction of stereotypical beliefs, misconceptions and media misrepresentation about BDSM in the community at large.  To encourage SM Pride’s members and the community at large to volunteer time, skills and other resources to support, formally and informally, our aims and objectives through SM Pride and other means.

BDSM Events, lists and other!

London Fetish Fair is a fantastic event that you must attend. A vast range of people from all walks of life who are interested in the fetish lifestyle go to it to shop for latex and bondage equipment & to make new friends.  The London Fetish Fair is the world’s longest running adult fashion and bdsm market held in London, England, UK

This is a US based BDSM and fetish events list which lists all sorts of kinky and fun goings on all across the land!  Click the link to see what is on in your area.